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		<title>The Ant and Ar-Razzaq</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A story to ponder over that I received in my e-mail:
Prophet Sulayman (pbuh) in response to his special prayer to God was granted Kingdom and was given power over the forces of nature, over the Jinns and men and devils and other living creatures. He was also endowed with knowledge of their language and could easily [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">A story to ponder over that I received in my e-mail:</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Prophet Sulayman (pbuh) in response to his special prayer to God was granted Kingdom and was given power over the forces of nature, over the Jinns and men and devils and other living creatures. He was also endowed with knowledge of their language and could easily communicate with them.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Prophet Sulayman (pbuh) once was sitting on the bank of a lake deeply engrossed in the beauties of nature around and appreciating the various forms of Allah&#8217;s creation on earth.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Suddenly Prophet Sulayman (pbuh)&#8217;s attention was drawn towards an ant creeping forward with a grain of wheat in its mouth. As it reached near the water, a tortoise came out, opened its mouth and the ant crept into it. The tortoise closing its mouth disappeared under the water. After a while, the tortoise again sprung out of the water and standing on the bank opened its mouth and the ant came out. But this time it had no grain of wheat in its mouth.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Prophet Sulayman (pbuh) became anxious to know what had been happening under water. On inquiring, the ant explained that at the bottom of the lake was a stone, and underneath it lived a blind ant. Allah had created it there and because of blindness, it could not move about. The ant further said that I have been appointed by Allah to provide its daily sustenance with the assistance of the tortoise and hence, I do perform this duty everyday.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Let us ponder over one thing. If a tiny creature like an ant living under a stone at the bottom of a sea is not denied its sustenance, why should man the noblest of all creatures ever suspect loss of his sustenance from Almighty Allah? Isn&#8217;t it foolishness to dirty one&#8217;s hand in prohibited transactions for earning one&#8217;s livelihood? Such persons do not get more, than what is destined and earn Allah&#8217;s Wrath and Punishment in the Hereafter.</span></span></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="color: #003300;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Moral: Allah (SWT) is Ar Razzaq. He is our Provider and we should always have faith in Him and trust Him in all our Affairs.</span></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>Independence from Others. Tawakkal (Trust) in God</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Mar 2009 23:14:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend once quoted to me a gem from a scholar: “Get used to loneliness, because afflictions arise with people.”
Sometimes people hurt you.  Sometimes the pain is inconceivable.  Once I had an emotional pain that turned into a physical pain; it was so strange.  I was ready to move on, forgive and forget, but something in me did not want to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><span style="color: #006600; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">A friend once quoted to me a gem from a scholar: “Get used to loneliness, because afflictions arise with people.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Sometimes people hurt you.  Sometimes the pain is inconceivable.  Once I had an emotional pain that turned into a physical pain; it was so strange.  I was ready to move on, forgive and forget, but something in me did not want to let the pain go.  It’s truly strange.  Your mind is ready to move on, but the pain in your heart remains.  Your mind tries to reason with your heart, but the heart refuses to listen.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">In reality, this pain is a blessing from Allah.  He wants us to cry out to Him for help; He wants to drive us away from people and towards Himself.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Once when I was going through a rough situation, I wrote this journal entry:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">“Trust should only be placed on Allah.  Never leave your home hoping to find salvage and peace with others, the irony is that you are leaving the very place that can unite you with your Lord—the privacy of your own bedroom.  Need someone to cry to?  Wake up in the last third of the night and cry to Allah.  Need someone to consult with, talk to, vent to, sing to (I’m not joking), show love to?  Wake up and express yourself to Allah.  Allah is the origin of all beauty and pleasure.  Is there something in your best friend that you just can’t fathom and enjoy being in their company because of this “special” quality?  Guess what, Allah has this quality…and even more!  He has this quality infinitely.  The BEST thing about consulting and revealing your secrets to Allah is that he is the BEST secret keeper.  Humans are imperfect when it comes to keeping secrets and amanas (trusts).”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">One of the greatest lessons I learned is to place full trust in God.  Sometimes we get excited, and immediately want to relay things to others.  But we should control our excitement, and immediately want to relay things to Allah.  We should cry out to Allah when we want to rid our chest of worries.  We should seek out Allah when we need advice.  And if we really need the advice of others, we should clearly dictate our intentions: to God, to ourselves, and to the advisor.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">My mom told me once that it is not good to have an ultimate *best* friend, because if there is any conflict, the pain will be harder to overcome.  In Islam we must have moderation.  We should not rely on others excessively for companionship and ease, but neither should we cast people off.  Our most enjoyable companionship and ease should be with God.  If we find it with others, we should never let it overpower our relationship with God, nor should we fail to realize that the joy we find with others is a manifestation of the Ultimate Joy we seek in God.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">If one lacks depth in his/her relationship with God, than he/she will seek it out in others.  Dependence on others is an indication of one’s station with God.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">A good hadith that is relevant to the topic:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">It was narrated that Anas [May God preserve him] said that the Prophet [pbuh] said:</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">Whoever is mainly concerned about the Hereafter, Allah will make him feel independent of others and will make him focused and content, and his worldly affairs will fall into place.  But whoever is mainly concerned with this world, Allah will make him feel in constant need of others and will make him distracted and unfocused, and he will get nothing of this world except what is decreed for him.  (narrated by al-Tirmidhi, Hadith No. 2389)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">(Source: al-Fawaa’ id, page 159)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">And beautiful poetry from Ibn Ata’illah:</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">“He only made afflictions come at the hands of people<br />
so that you not respond to them.<br />
He wants to drive you out from everything<br />
so that nothing would divert you from Him.”</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">“Appeal to no one but Him to relieve you of a pressing need<br />
that He himself has brought upon you.<br />
For how can someone else remove what He has imposed?<br />
And how can he who is unable to free himself of a pressing need<br />
free someone else of one?”</span></p>
<p align="center"><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">“When He alienates you from His creatures,<br />
then know that He wants<br />
to open for you the door of intimacy with Himself.”</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #c0c0c0;">(Source: Ibn Ata’illah’s Al Hikam [Book of Wisdoms])</span></p>
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